1.) You realize that in the real world there aren’t always fairy tale endings, and that any guarantee of “happily ever after” must begin with you. And in the process a sense of serenity is born of acceptance.
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enter 11.) You learn the difference between wanting and needing and you begin to discard the doctrines and values you’ve outgrown and that principles, such as honesty and integrity, are the mortar that holds together the foundation upon which you must build a life.
13.) You learn that the only cross to bear is the one you choose to carry and that martyrs get burned at the stake.
14.) You learn that alone does not mean lonely and instead of being by yourself you are with yourself.
15.) You stop trying to control people, situations and outcomes.